Introvert Love Podcast Episode 8 "I'm Sprung" | 9th Wave Apparel
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You’re Sprung!? The only reason they like you is because of the lifestyle that you provide and support and security they need. Do they like you? Do they really even know you?
We all know that one. That one that just does it for you. It could be there personality, there character, always fun to be around, funny and attractive. But, maybe you just haven’t got far with them or as far as you would’ve with them. Or… Maybe you have. Maybe you have went all the way with them. Falling in love fast and hard. Maybe even went out the way to get you a gift that you thought was special, but, you’re not the only one to get this gift. It could be a picture in lingerie or naked. But, anyone they talk to or candidates from whom they’ve been seeking attention from in that way gets one. Let’s say a promise ring. Whatever. You’re falling head over heels. But, what exactly are you falling in love with? Or is it lust? They swept you off your feet huh? Or are you just blinded by the glitz and glamour. Attracted to the allure or physical traits?
And sad to say we live in a world where it would seem nowadays, half of the people all they want are the benefits of having a sugar daddy or sugar momma and just receive meaningless gifts or Getting cashed app or Venmoed money just because of their beauty in which they exploit themselves and their body through Snapchat and other services (giving endless data to these servers which are always being hacked and monitored by the way) with little to no effort or work. But, then there’s the other half that is looking for something more serious
Well I’m guilty of it too and usually when I’m sprung it’s for the wrong ones. The ones I don’t need to be with or shouldn’t engage in something with anyway. But, what do we all do. Try to paint and invision ourselves with the one who abuses or vulnerability knowing that we like them more than and friend and possibly leads us on or takes advantage of the situation which is wrong. Right?
For me sadly it has happened more often for me than I would like. Creating the narrative “nice guys finish last”. Although I haven’t strayed from being that nice guy. I know it’s not always fun because a lot of woman take advantage of that. For me it was the girl next door, as well as, a girlfriend I dated freshman year of college that was never ready to date seriously so why get into a relationship? Why do we want what’s bad for us? Why do we want what we shouldn’t have even after you get it sometimes?
My job is to get you to think. Not to persuade you or make you think like me. But, just to question what is around you. Why are things the way they are? Why do people think the way they do about certain things? And challenge them.
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